When I sat down to write this week’s blog entry, there were so many topics I could have chosen. But the one that rises above all the others is a result of a quote I shared with my chair yoga class this week as part of my Dharma talk to start the class. I found a quote by Joseph Campbell that really resonated with me:
“We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.”
Before I talked about it in the yoga class, I just kept reading that quote and I couldn’t believe how strongly it hit me. For over six years I’ve been trying to find words to adequately describe how drastically (but with hindsight, in the best way possible) my life changed due to circumstances outside of my control.
If you had asked me six years ago what I imagined my future to be, I would have told you without hesitation that I would be a classroom teacher up until the point that I would make a lateral move using my masters degree to be a school librarian/media specialist. Never would I have anticipated that Multiple Sclerosis would change the course of my future so abruptly and unexpectedly.
I felt like I was walking around with a broken compass for the longest time… a traveler without a map, and no guidance. The rug was pulled out from under me, and I was so lost.
Little by little I began putting the new pieces of my life together and just as I thought I had found some stability towards my new future, cancer came along. So I began the process of finding myself once again, more uncertain than ever about what my purpose was.
I invested time in myself, mostly through yoga, meditation, and journaling. I have always found comfort in writing (which is partly why I started this little blog of mine in the first place), and putting in this kind of work on myself helped me see beyond what I thought my life was meant to be. Instead I began to see what it could be if I just allowed things to unfold.
I never thought I could feel the amount of pure and utter joy that I do now, in this life that was waiting for me. I take pleasure in even the minutia of daily life because I’m still here. I get to share my love of yoga with others who don’t yet believe in themselves, and who can benefit most from a practice that is equally as good for body, mind, and spirit.
When I look back I am amazed that I ever felt lost because this life is better than any I could have imagined for myself. Yes, it’s true that I will always have medical challenges and the fear of cancer will always be lurking in the back of my mind… but I do not let those things hold me back from enjoying this beautiful life that I never knew was waiting for me while I toiled away at the one I had planned. What I know for sure is that life takes you on many detours and when you arrive to the place you are meant to be, there is no sweeter feeling in the world.
Take it from me… I’ve been around the gamut and six years later, I am enjoying the life that was waiting for me while I was too busy planning one that was not in the cards for me. And you know what? I wouldn’t change a thing. Not MS, not breast cancer, not diabetes. Nothing. Because without all that has happened I wouldn’t have found this exact spot, full of joy and light, where I know I’m meant to be.