There is nothing I hate more than teacher bashing, except for being part of a profession that is generalized in incredibly negative ways. I have often heard the expression “those who can do, and those who can’t teach”. Comments are always made about “bankers’ hours” and summers off. The truth of the matter is that good teachers defy every single one of those statements. There are rotten apples in every field but in the world of education, one teacher doing something subpar damns us all.
Today I am dedicating this blog to all the amazing teachers out there, and I hope to shed some light on how much we do for our kids that goes way above and beyond our contractual obligations. All of these anecdotes are true, from my life as well as from the lives of some of the best teachers I have ever known. Unlike other jobs out there, teachers commit for life. If any of my students, no matter how many years have gone by, ever needed me, I would be there in a heartbeat. There are more teachers like me out there than you think!
One of my teacher friends mentored a student with fairly challenging obstacles in her life. She guided this young lady as she made her way through high school. When the student was in college, she sometimes spent weekends with my friend when she needed some encouragement or just a weekend away from school. When the student’s mom passed away, my friend took a personal day so that she could attend the funeral. When the student graduated from college (with highest honors), my friend travelled out of state to attend the graduation ceremony. This student is now attending graduate school, and I have no doubt that my friend will continue to support her as she continues on her journey. There is no end to my friend’s dedication, and this student’s experience is just one example of it.
I could go on and on about my own “kids” and give examples of how I have shown that I commit to them forever. Not too long ago, a former student called me on a random Wednesday afternoon. Texts are definitely more common with this generation, so I was immediately panicked. I picked up the call and the kid was crying. He was having some medical issues and he was in pain. After listening to him for a minute or two, I knew what I had to do. I went to the ER with him and stayed there for hours (well into the night) because I was not going to leave his side, even though I had been out and about all day long and I was exhausted. I sacrificed my usual Thursday morning exercise class because I couldn’t do it after such a long day the day before. I didn’t regret it then, and I don’t regret it now. I’d do it again and again for any of my kids if they needed me.
I have been to weddings, surprise birthday parties, baby showers, graduation parties, and many other life events for my students. I have taken them to doctor appointments, visited them in the hospital, and have even wired money during a sub-zero cold snap so that a homeless student could get a hotel room off the street to warm up. Several times I even bought that same student clothing in the winter, and lunch when she did not have the money.
Yet now teachers are being demonized for the simple fact that during this pandemic, it is simply not safe to return to school. Let’s all be honest that these are unprecedented times, and no one was prepared when schools were ordered closed here in NJ. Most districts did not even give the teachers any training or professional development on how to teach remotely, yet they rose to the occasion, because that’s what teachers always do. It was short notice, and what happened was EMERGENCY learning, not virtual learning. Although I am no longer a classroom teacher, I will always speak on behalf of the teachers because they need someone to defend them. I am absolutely appalled that they are being sent back to the Petri dish of germs that schools are. Most buildings lack proper air filtration systems, and if I am talking about my experiences if there were any windows at all in the classroom, none had screens. Opening a window is great, but all you need is one bee to fly in, and your entire lesson is done. If parents can choose remote learning for their children, then teachers (particularly the vulnerable with co-morbidities) should also have the choice. Why is it ok for people in the private sector to work from home without such backlash? Who else goes to work and is advised to be sure that you have an up-to-date will on file? Who else will have to wear a mask to protect the others, but it’s not reciprocal? Who else does this at the meager wages while also dipping into their pockets to provide even the most basic of essentials for their classes? Who else is exposed to over 150 (or more) kids a day, not knowing what the parents have done to ensure that their kids have been masked and socially distanced at all times around others? This would be next to impossible in a school setting.
The stories I shared are practical examples of the deep-rooted connection and commitment we make to our kids. We don’t do it because we have to, but because it’s in our nature to give all we have to give, especially when we have special bonds with our students. But sacrificing our own health and safety, as well as that of our families , is not a part of any teacher’s contract. We are expected to be the comforting source for kids, keep our eye out for signs of abuse, homelessness, hunger, and we are even expected to protect them over our own selves in the event of an active shooter situation. We make engaging lessons that get torn apart by our supervisors, we love teachable moments that happen organically, and we celebrate the accomplishments of our students, no matter how small. We are expected to love them, discipline them, and risk our own health and safety (and that of our own families) while constantly being disrespected by society.
I wish one great teacher could make the reputation of the entire profession of teaching soar as high as one bad teacher brings it down. I challenge each of you to name a teacher that made a difference in your life, and I guarantee you’ll be able to do it. But can you name any bankers, business executives, or sales people that made a difference in your life? Me neither.
(Shout-out to the teachers who made a difference in my life: Alma Reusch, Nurmi Moran, Amy Smith and “Chickie” Pulis. Thank you all, wherever you are.)