Bill Murray. I think most people would classify him as a superstar, right? I mean, he’s been in a gazillion blockbuster movies through the years… and I’m sure he doesn’t have to worry about many of the struggles that “normal” people do. So why am I (a chronic illness/positivity blogger) bringing up something so random? Well, the answer is pretty simple. This week Bruce and I watched a fabulously entertaining yet quite powerful documentary called “The Bill Murray Stories.”
I had heard stories of how Bill Murray seems to pop up places, like he belongs there. For example, a couple was having an engagement photo shoot done, and out of nowhere, Bill Murray appeared and even took some photos with the couple. He has been know to show up at random house parties, stand outside of sporting events with an extra ticket and bring a random stranger into the game and sit with the person, and has even shown up at a karaoke bar and jumped in with a bunch of strangers and sing karaoke with them.
Watching the documentary made me realize a few things. First of all, it’s refreshing to see someone who has achieved uber fame connect with “regular” people. The effect he has had, as told by those who have had these Bill Murray experiences, is one of joy. Plus he’s not there to be able to create stories for himself, but rather it gives the others great stories to tell. Most of all, Bill Murray is about living in the moment and taking it all in, not looking to be treated any differently than anyone else.
This made me think that this guy has it all figured out. He doesn’t think about the fact that he brings such excitement to people when he “pops in”, but rather he just likes hanging out with regular people and doing regular things. He is truly present in the moment, and those around him see it, feel it, learn from it, and have amazingly sweet memories as a result.
It might sound silly that the guy from “Ghostbusters” and “Caddyshack” and countless other classic flicks could teach such a valuable lesson to us all, but I was indeed affected by the film, almost as much as those who have Bill Murray stories to share. Who knew a comic actor with such a huge body of work could be the model of what we should all aspire to? Not me. But my hat is off to Bill Murray. Lesson learned.