Obviously if you are a regular reader of my little blog, then you’ll know that Bruce and I ran into a lot of stumbling blocks as we began our search for a home where we can safely live out the rest of our years in New Jersey before he can join me in retirement. It has been a very frustrating time for me, because I was trying hard to narrow things down without him so he could focus on work. Finally I found an older development that is not age restricted, and in a perfect location for us. Unfortunately, there is only one model that suits our needs, and the one home that was up for sale already had three offers on it. I decided not to even look at it because I was worried that I would fall in love with it, and ultimately be devastated because it couldn’t be ours.
After much discussion, Bruce and I decided to call off the search for a new home right now. We built this home together. We lived in a hotel for five darn months while it was being built. And we picked everything that we wanted, down to the doorknobs, for Pete’s sake! We have only been here six years, and Bruce is pretty much numb to the god-awful commute he suffers through every day. Part of our conversation included growing our family back to two dogs because I have been missing my Marty so very much lately, and I think Scarlet has too. I know that I will never replace that boy of mine, but ever since we became a two dog family, it seems a little empty with just one, no matter how much I love princess Scarlet.
So I did as I have always done in the past. Within seconds of our decision, I hit Petfinder to see who would find me. That’s how it has always worked in the past. I saw Mookie (then being called Amigo) and stopped looking. The following Saturday, he became a Rankin. When Mookie was getting older and we were settled in this nice big house, I did it again. I went on Petfinder, saw Marty (going by the name Acho), and stopped looking. A few days later, he became Mr. Marty Rankin. Scarlet came to me through different means (shout out to her fairy godmother, Rhonda), but I rescued her from a bad situation, and she came for an overnight that never ended. My point is that there has always been something that connected me to these dogs before I even knew them. I always say that they all chose me, and I stand behind that statement to this day.
So as I got on Petfinder, and suddenly found him. I stopped looking and reached out to the shelter. I have always gravitated towards adult dogs because they are so often overlooked in favor of the younger dogs in shelters. But I know the heart-warming joy of loving an older dog, and how they exude gratitude and love as if they know that they have been saved. Heck, I even volunteer with senior dogs at Marty’s Place Senior Dog Sanctuary so I feel I really do connect with older pups.
I’m not sure if Bruce took me seriously, but before he could even protest, I had arranged a meet and greet for the three of us (Bru, me, and Scarlet) because I fell in love with the new little one as soon as I saw his picture and read his story. The meet and greet went as expected, and on the day that this entry is posted, the newest member of our family will have been with us for 24 hours!
So I’ll just give you a brief background of what we know about the dog we will be calling Squiggy. In the shelter he was known as Chino. He is about 7 years old, has very few teeth, and had very bad dental disease. He also had a bad bladder infection, and very little hair, except on his mane. He weighs only about eight pounds, but he is at a healthy weight for his tiny size. He is friendly and loving, and I think he and Scarlet will be super close eventually because she is such a nurturer after being bred far too many times, which is one of the reasons she ended up with me. Ever since I saw this little guy’s picture, and especially after meeting him, I can’t wait for him to get here. He will be delivered to us since they like to do a home inspection before placing dogs. His foster family loves him but they have five dogs ranging in size from chihuahua to pit bull, and it can get crowded there. But I have to give huge kudos to all the people who foster animals, helping them to learn how to love and trust, and be socialized regardless of the pasts they have lived but are unable to tell us about. It takes the patience of a saint and a heart of gold.
As for me, I am ready to adjust my schedule for the first few weeks so that I won’t be out of the house for more than two or three hours at a clip. I want Squiggy to learn that I will always come back to him and that his future will be full of love and happiness, belly rubs and kisses, but most importantly, the stability he needs. Having pets has been very therapeutic for me with everything that I have gone through, and even though his tiny little brain doesn’t know it, I know that Squiggy will be giving me as much (or more) than I give him.