I know I have written about my dog Marty in the past, but he is certainly worthy of another entry for so many reasons. He’s definitely my spirit animal in that he’s a true warrior dog. I mean, he was rescued from a high-kill shelter in Texas, with heart-worms, mange, and a host of other conditions. He survived all of that, found his way to NJ, and finally found me.
I didn’t fall in love with him from day one, but there is no denying that he’s my little boy now. Amazingly, since I’ve had him (coming up on five years), we have been through many health crises together, and he has overcome every single one, most notably a collapsed trachea and the sudden onset of diabetes.
Most recently, on the day of my surgery, as we were rushing out of the house at 6 am, we noticed that one whole side of poor Marty’s face was swollen. Great timing! After my surgery, Bruce deposited me on the couch, ran out to get my medications, and brought Marty to the vet. This had happened in the past yet with a new vet in the practice, she was reluctant to give us any medication without seeing him. She actually wanted to admit him but Bruce insisted that this was not a good time. As it turns out, Marty had an abscess and needed an antibiotic, an anti-inflammatory, and some pain management. The swelling went down pretty quickly, but it was obvious he was uncomfortable. The vet suggested we admit him immediately to have a deep cleaning done, but of course we couldn’t do that because we were dealing with human issues. In the interim, we dealt with a lot of crying (on Marty’s part and ours) as well as frustration all around. He can’t tell us what he needs and we did nothing but try everything possible to see what he needed: taking him out, giving him meds, feeding him, moving him to all of his favorite spots to rest… and the list goes on.
When he finally had his dental work done, the bone in his jaw was so brittle that the vet caused a hairline fracture, which then led us to a doggie oral surgeon to take on his case. Again, our lives revolved around trying to take care of our baby boy and managing his pain. For a middle-aged couple who made a conscious decision to simplify our lives by not having any children, we were living as if we had a child. Besides taking care of Marty, we also had to make sure that Scarlet was not feeling any less loved, despite the amount of attention that Marty required. Rather than simplifying our life, it was exponentially more complicated, especially when taking into account the fact that I was recovering from surgery myself plus the MS that is a constant presence in our world.
But the truth of the matter is that when you rescue animals like we do, particularly the ones who would not be adopted otherwise, it’s a sacrifice you make. I would not give up on my little man like others did before me, even if it temporarily turns my life into something other than what I had anticipated. Happily, he is on the mend and practically back to his old self again, and we remain grateful for the life decisions that led us to create our little family without human children. It’s a choice we made early on for many reasons, and without any regrets. It was (and has been) an exhausting time for us, and I can’t imagine how we would fare if we had taken the alternate path…the one where we follow the masses and the societal norms simply because most people do.
The universe clearly drew me to Marty, and there is a reason I felt he was the one to rescue even though I didn’t fall in love with him right away. Our lives are parallel, though, or so it seems. He already had medical issues when we rescued him, and there always seems to be something new to deal with for the poor guy. I, too, had my own medical concerns before he came home with me, and sometimes I feel like I keep having more added to my already well-stocked plate. If it is indeed true that Marty is my spirit animal and he has been given multiple lives in his short little life, then at least I can take comfort in the fact that I have several more to go myself!