This past weekend was indeed very special for me. I did not go on vacation or to any place where I don’t go several times a week. I went to a spot that feels like home and is incredibly important to me. But what happened there was different than any other time I have spent there, and I left feeling grateful, loved, grounded, and even though I can put my ego aside when I am practicing yoga, yesterday I felt proud… because yesterday was the official graduation celebrating attaining 300 hours of Yoga Teacher Training with my gypsy soul sisters. We actually finished with our training back in June, but our studio was in the process of relocating, so we waited to celebrate in our beautiful new space. It was worth the wait.
Last August, I decided to deepen my yoga practice by enrolling in Teacher Training, not really sure where the journey would ultimately take me. I felt stagnant and that there was some sense of purpose missing from my life, which is not an uncommon feeling for someone like me. I was a high school teacher and I loved my job with every fiber of my being. When MS decided I could no longer perform my job in the way it deserved to be done, I was lost. I had no job, no identity, and no purpose. I had been practicing regularly for about a year when I was given a scholarship to the yoga studio because the owner happens to be passionate about MS and has a foundation that funds scholarships for people like me, because yoga memberships are expensive! I was so grateful to her for seeing something in me (really just through Instagram) and I dove in, putting myself in front of as many teachers as possible.
The class I connected most with happened to be a Friday morning class with Maria, who ultimately brought me on the journey through teacher training to certification. I was drawn to her passion about being true to the ancient teachings and even though I never thought it would be the case, I loved the harmonium and the chanting, connecting us all by the simple unified vibration it brings about. So when she started talking about her teacher training, i was there to find out more. I committed on the spot, and I’m so glad I did.
Bruce likes to say that I was married to yoga for ten months. It isn’t easy to commit to anything when you have MS. I spent two weekends a month in class, studying during the weeks, practicing every day, It was intense and amazing and my head would spin with the huge amount of deep knowledge that was being passed down to me. Everything is harder when you have MS, and there were many times when I thought I might throw in the towel. I have to read things many more times than my classmates because of cognitive issues related to MS. Practice itself is harder for me because I don’t feel my feet (neuropathy) and sometimes I physically press my feet down where they need to be because muscle has memory, and that’s the only thing I can do to train them. And anyone with MS knows that balance is not easy, but I continue to work until sweat is pouring off of me. That’s just MS. Let’s not forget about breast cancer leaving me with limited range of motion in my left arm because of lymph node removal and lumpectomy, and a fused spine that inhibits twisting. Most people would listen to that laundry list of issues, and dismiss me as being a hot mess. But my teacher and my classmates embraced me with all my issues. Instead of doubting me for being “disabled”, they complimented me and never wasted an opportunity to lift me up and tell me to look at what I can do, despite it all.
My life is forever changed from taking on something I never thought I could accomplish, and yet I did. Yoga is about detaching from ego and I do that quite easily on my mat, but to think of how hard I worked to attain this (so that I can pass it on to teach others) makes me feel strong and proud. Since taking on this challenge, I see just about everything differently. I am more aware of myself and my body, how I react to others, and the mark I am leaving on the planet. I hope I will always lean on these teachings to guide me, because there is a reason that they have been passed down for thousands of years.
My message is pretty clear, I hope. For anyone who struggles with a disability, do not let it stand in the way of your dreams. We are all capable of anything as long as we are patient with ourselves and we use the tools that are available to help us. I don’t care if I was the weakest link in my class because my life (aside from being 20 years older than one of my yoga sisters and 10 years older than the other) has unfolded in a very different way than anyone else’s. I. Still. Did. It. And so can you.
(Maria, Justina, and Liz… I have no words. My gratitude for you is deeper than I could express, and my love for you girls is endless. Thank you for traveling this journey with me, and I know that now that our paths have crossed we will all continue traveling together. And Bruce: my rock, my best friend, my biggest fan. You may have felt like i was married to yoga but without you I would be nothing. Thank you for being my everything. And no picture of you because I know you wouldn’t want it.)
*** NOTE TO MY READERS: I am taking a family vacation so I’ll be taking time off to be fully present there, and I’ll be back with new content on September 10th. “See” you then!